Chilli? Maybe tomato..

I'd just realized something, again.. I'm no longer a necessity.. I'm just, a salad dressing, can be added for some flava', or not at all.. And another thing, about getting over someone.. People tend to get over someone by not thinking of him/her, cramming their schedules and keeping themselves as busy as possible.. And whalla.. They'll have no time to think about him/her.. I seriously doubt that..

By doing whatever that I'd just mentioned.. Wouldn't it be more like erasing the existence of that person in your life, rather than to get over him/her? By forcing that someone out of your life, by not remembering his/her past, or the past both of you had went through.. Is that called getting over someone? I doubt it..

Some say if they leave a room for their mind to think of that person, that would make them harder to 'get over'.. Thinking of that person would make them tear, or flashback the memories they'd had together.. And so they'd chose not to think, not to remember, not to picture, and not to hope.. Getting over huh? I doubt it..

To me, the way people 'get over' someone, is bullshit.. All that is done is running away, not get over.. By getting over someone, you would smile when you think about the memories both of you had, and tell yourself 'Ah, those were the days'.. And not completely erasing those memories off.. To get over someone, you should be able to talk to that person as someone close, as someone who'd went through the past with you, someone who was there during the ups and downs of life, someone you were with before, and not completely treating that someone as a total stranger, as just another ordinary guy/girl, who'd never play a role in your life.. You would let your heart and mind think of that person, and not preventing them from doing so.. Thinking of that person, let out a smile on your face, and continue on with life.. This, I wouldn't doubt, not at all..

*Kk*