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Time heals, heals my butt.. Yeah it sure healed the wound, but it'd also leave a scar behind.. One would let the daily routines of life heal their hearts, studies, going to classes and all, and in no time, you'd actually left the past behind.. I wouldn't.. And if the problem arises again, could you handle it? I couldn't..

Friends do play a role in helping you up, parents totally don't.. Try telling your parents about your youth love, more than half of them would say 'Ahh you're wasting your time in this puppy, monkey, and all sorts of animal love'.. Or your mom would start 'Why wanna get involve and tied down bla bla bla'.. And on she'd go, you know how women hardly catch their breath..

Siblings.. Some siblings would be of great help, especially the elderly.. They tend to be more supportive and understanding, more likely when it comes to dealing the problem with your parents.. Some would even help cover up and even take the blame for you.. Ahh, such noble siblings.. But on the other hand, there are some who'd go 'Hoho I tell mummy.. You die lorh you die lorh'.. Yeah, the younger once.. So for siblings, it depends actually.. Some you could comfortably sit beside him/her and express your feelings, and some you would just wanna bite off his/her ears as soon as they speak..

Next, your lover.. Well there are some who wouldn't wanna express their sorrow to their lovers, for they would be busy gaming / TVing (for the guys) or busy reading fashion magazines / shopping / manicure / beautifying some other parts.. But all in all, yeah lovers tend to turn to their partners, cause if they wouldn't, why be lovers then? Lover = good role..

Last on the list, your ex.. Well, ex can be considered as a 'friend', but for this case, we assume fresh breakups.. Ex plays a huge role, in fact a major role in helping one up.. Mindsets of people nowadays are 'If I would to be close to him/her, if I would to care for him/her, it would be harder for him/her to accept that our path has reached its dead end'.. Bullshit.. If one would get the motives clear and straight, telling him/her that you care because he/her has a position in your heart, but that caring would have its boundaries, that would seriously help alot.. Leaving your ex to go through the pain all by his/herself is as plucking his/her pubic hair one by one.. Gosh I could hardly imagine how would things turn out if you had a hairy ex.. So, be it males or females, your support to your ex plays the most important role of all.. Shits like 'I wanna let him/her feel the pain I'd went through', if so, what difference does it makes between you and him/her? Revenge? An eye for an eye? Cut the crap.. Show some concern and love (but dont let it lead to a misunderstanding), unless your ex was a total jerk, for that you can just ask him/her to fuck off..

Pleasure of love lasts for a moment, pain of love lasts a lifetime..

*K*