Differences

Billions of people live in the world we're living now, and each and every one of them shares different thoughts. Some are willing to accept all thoughts, and choose to live with their very own happy believes that people would think of that as 'dreaming'. Some would live thoughts as how the real world portrays it as, and feeling fairyland thoughts are 'childish'.

When two people of different thinking come together, is there no way to have a happy ending? One would see it as the honeymoon period would not make the difference in personalities stand out. But once it's over, things would get worst, the all along core problem would arise, and one would feel that there's no point going on anymore. The difference in opinions and thoughts would be so significant, and even though arguments over, the problem still stays. And as these thoughts and problems compiled, it is then followed up by a burst of emotions, 'tired, 'I'm done doing this', 'This is heading nowhere and we're gonna end up arguing and arguing so let's just put an end to this for the better tomorrow'. And what's left that could be done, is the move on with life, meet more people and find out more about the world. And along that journey, one would discover more point of views, and at some point, those views would maybe change one's mindset.

If something would to be done during that challenging phase, could the relationship be saved? If both would to sit down, talk about things slowly and lovingly, telling one's partner about their very own feelings and how different is it from their partner's, would things be better? Like being mentioned before, there would be no right or wrong to how things are being handled then. Some would to think as this is who we truly are, and if we would to talk about it, how much can a person change? Sooner or later things would go back to square one.

On a different point of view, if both are willing to do their very best for the relationship, to accept one's point of view and to live with it. Would that be better too? How sure can one know that that point of view you're accepting is right, and the other is wrong? Maybe the other party’s wrong, and they should accept yours. But then again how sure would one be that one’s thinking is right? It’s like the question to “What comes first, a chicken or an egg”?

So at the end of the day, it’s fair to say that there is no right or wrong to whatever one would think. Some would think the best solution to this is to part, be friends, meet more people and gain more experience. And if fate permits, these two would meet, and be together. Another point of view would be to try out things and figure it out as a couple together. Keep trying, if it fails, stand up and try again. And if things work out, indirectly the relationship has moved on to another level, if it doesn’t, it is then time to part.

Love is a game for two, if one would to stop; the other is forced to stop as well. One would to question, “My best shot would not necessarily be yours”. Hence, there wouldn’t be a time where the two would come to the same agreement. And then we’re back to the same point where there’s no right or wrong to one’s decision. So I guess at the very last bit, sooner or later, this game of love would have a winner and a loser. The winner would be the one being firm of one’s decision, and the loser is obliged to follow it. But nevertheless, whether the winner’s decision is right or wrong, no one knows. It's something that's ought to be given a shot. And maybe time will…..